More clumsy less gutsy Part-3(Final Chapter)

#life #love #laugh
To be continued(Ab aage)…….She fell in my arms, I had no clue how she got fainted maybe she was out of breath and completely exhausted. I was very strained but at least I had to strive to wake her up. But my every attempt was in vain. There was no network so that we can call for an emergency. At least we had to reach the highway. At that kind of situation, I’m not the one who weathers the storm but I have to grit my teeth. I’m a great fan of discovery and national geographic channel. I watched a show named “I shouldn’t be alive.” So I was very positive that we could escape this jungle.

I started looking around for a hollow semi-wooden log on which I could lay her so that I can drag her till I get depleted. She had an athletic body so it was next to impossible to carry her in my arm start walking otherwise we both couldn’t make it before morning. Thank God I grabbed a rope while I was leaving home. I made holes on both sides of log and tangled the rope tightly so that I drag it. I place my clothes and bag between her head and log so that it works as a cushion for her head.

Somehow I was able to make her lay down on the log. Arduously I started my journey to save both of us. That jungle was safe till 2 A.M. because the forest officer used to do patrolling but after it was all about the king and his kingdom. The time was 12:30 when I started. I have this particular habit that whenever I become nervous or discourage I start singing motivational songs. No matter how bad I sing. While I was dragging her I started singing “Fix You by Coldplay”https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aK3TROzVRiE and right after that “Fighter by Gym Class Heroes ft. Ryan Tedder” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MGuq7ZGDjdA

In between, I tried to call her by her name but there was no response but I kept checking that she was very much alive and keep breathing. After one and a half hour exhausted journey it was 2 A.M. I can see that our motorbike was right there in front of me. I was running out of breath and couldn’t see clearly. So I went to her and started crying that she has to wake up otherwise we had to live the worst nightmare of our life. I don’t know how but after a couple of minutes she opened her eyes. I started smiling but that sounds like sobbing now. And I was completely drained and fell on the ground. I heard she was screaming my name but after a few seconds, there was a blackout in front of me.

I don’t know after when but when I woke up I found myself tied around her on the motorbike. I asked her “Where we are now?”

She- “Within 15 min we will reach to our homes.”

Me-” Hussshhh!! How did you manage all this?”

She-“You have to gain weight. It was very easy for me to tie you up all around myself so well that you didn’t fall off the bike. You are not a challenging person at all.”

Me- “Ha ha…Very funny.”

She-“So why we are not friends like we used to be?”

Me- “Oh God…you still remember what we were talking about.”

She- “Of course…”

Me-I don’t know. Maybe time was the catalyst.

She- You have to be honest about it. Otherwise, I will cut you loose and I don’t know how many bones will break. Now shoot.

Me- Everything was good between us. But one fine day I heard you were talking to your friend that…

She- Go on..

Me- “You said you don’t want to be with me as everybody taunts you that I’m with you just because I have sympathy for you. Like I am doing mercy to you by being your friend. I didn’t want you to continue our friendship as a burden whenever I’m with you. So I set you free. Gradually I stopped talking to or meet you. I thought that would be best for both of us. So to be sure that you never worry about anything, I told Jay and Grace that whenever you face problem inform me.

Then you opted for commerce streams and I went to science streams so there was less conversation between us. But if we continued as friends you will always felt that I’m fulfilling my obligations. That’s why. Sorry I did that. I regret every day about it.”

She- “That’s it!!!!… You won’t be sorry. Within weeks I sensed that you did for both of us. I never complain about that. I know we were not on the same page but we were reading the same book. I heard friendship want sacrifices and I experienced that too now. The scenario could be different if instead of being clumsy we both came up as gutsy. To face whatever comes to our way.

But we reacted so awkwardly that we forget what real friendship stands for. We were confused and doomed that we put everything on the line. We are equally responsible for what happened to us. Sometimes the absence of interaction and conversation vanishes the strongest empire build on trust, affection, and friendship.”

She said right
Sometimes the absence of interaction and conversation vanishes the strongest empire build on trust, affection, and friendship.

Me- “Now I’m realizing it. We can’t go back and change what happened but one thing we can do.”

She-“What?”

Me- “We can be the same pair of Harley Quinn and Joker to add some twist in our life. Let’s get mad at each other again. Let’s give each other a chance, a chance to our friendship which remains inactive like a grizzly bear in hibernation.”

She(smiling with tears)- Yes…I miss my Joker too.

Me- Hey…Can I join you with your training and practice stuff to help you out?

She- Ok then….morning..5:30 sharp…And your time start now…

We both laughed and started running to our homes. She climbed up swiftly to her room and I had to struggle but reached safely. I looked at her, waved my hand and smiled….in return, she did some boxing action. I can’t express what I felt there…I want to feel that way; every day of my life.

I helped her out everyday, straight 3 months. Wether it was about studies or practicing for boxing. We hang out like we used to do at earlier days. Once few classmates were annoying and humiliating her and as you know again I threw lemonade on their faces. That was the sign for everyone that “We are back”.

She went for regular check-ups. Now she was recovering fast. Doctor advised us that she can participate in tournament but still there might me 10% chances of asthma attack. She needs to very careful. Her parents supported her fully. I was bit nervous but that was the moment for which she was preparing.

One after the another she was winning every match. She was invincible. Finally the championship day arrived everybody was excited. The whole school was there to support her. And among those thousand I was standing and cheering for her. Butterfly in my stomach making me sick about that particular day.

She fought like there nothing to lose; warrior who could take the whatever it takes. She was like Ronda Rousey in a boxing ring. I already made my mind that the moment she wins this championship I’m going to purpose her and what I feel about her.

The final round was over and result was awaited. Judges were doing the final counting and conversation. And the moment referee lifted her hand spectators gone mad; whistles and claps from every corner of that stadium.

She stepped down from the ring hugged everyone, her family, cousins Jay and Grace. Then she was approaching to me and I was very nervous but somehow managed to hide it with claps and smile.

Grandson(teenager)- So Grandpa did you purpose her or asked her for date?

Me- Of course I asked her. It was difficult but I asked her.

Grandson- What did she say?

I stood up from my seat and started walking towards wall. I hold my grandson’s hand and told him by pointing towards a frame.

Grandson- Ohh! Grandpa that girl was   my Grandma. It’s your and Grandma’s story. Seriously that was “more clumsy and less gutsy” in every way.

Me- Always remember son…to hold someone’s hand forever and decide to spent rest of your life with her…You have to be more gutsy and less clumsy otherwise things can’t be simple as simple it can be.

I was just staring at her photo and felt that it was all about yesterday. But I have to accept the fact she is watching me from above and holds my hands when take a walk around farm.
https://youtu.be/3GeaYy6zlXU

Must watch the full song mentioned in the above link.

                           *The End*

#life #guts #gutsy #clumsy #more #less #surprise

Nowadays people are not immature but ill-mature

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Sounds very strange that how people can be ill mature. But yes they are kind of people who are ill mature. So where these kinds of people reside and how they look like? From where they have come from? What makes them ill mature?

I’m gonna share my experience with these kinds of people in my day to day life. 4 days ago one of my friends said that I earn more from my business than you from your profession.

So sad…..I felt very terrible at first when I heard that. So miserable that I regretted 5 min then I realize that dude he can’t pronounce “Scared Games” and “Volkswagen Beetle” properly. He quit a long ago from education and knowledge that he couldn’t even read my blogs because they are in English. Among all of my friend, he is the only person left who insist me to write in a language which he could read. Now think how good I felt about that.

I’m not insulting him because he has no clue about English. I felt sorry for him that in his entire life he never improved at all. Not in any walk of life; weight, knowledge, learning, perception and the very basic thing Broad Minded thinking. When you look back 5 years back you can say that there are plenty of things which you learned and done.

In his life except for marriage, he didn’t do something great😂. He is still nowhere in a mob. He can’t even define himself or write about himself. He didn’t opt online matrimony site also. You know what gonna happen if he went through..hahahahahahaha🤣🤣🤣🤣

So if a person who couldn’t develop his mind and personality how he can judge you. Who gives him that right to say something? Poor fellow. Their only criteria are that don’t improve and if someone is trying to stop them too.

This particular thinking is known as ill-mature. And person who has that are ill mature not immature.

What if you are in a team for 15 days. You all have to sit together and someone has to arrange lunch which will get reimbursed later on. And only particular people will bring that lunch after asking everyone’s choice.

For straight seven days, you didn’t complain about the food you had. You’re good what-ever you’re getting. But if for one day you went to bring that lunch for everyone then. Those who used to went every day start picking up flaws in you. They start commenting like “He has no clue what to get and from where!!!” “What kind of food he has brought?” “We will not eat that” “We will get the food from our home”. Guess what? Only those who used to get lunch every day had the problem with what I had brought. And rest everyone was saying “Only today we had a great lunch”. I didn’t get it.🤔🤔

These people had clear thought in their mind that “Until and unless we’re ruling this state everything is great the moment someone takes our legacy we will entertain at all.” They love legacy and extra qualification of a relative of someone to whom you can’t compete. They think they own the world. Let me describe to you what their world is Father’s home and their own hometown. They have zero experience how to deal with the outside world. I can’t name it immature but ill mature instead.

What to do when something like this happens to you? Break the legacy dude. Now take the charge and you go out to bring lunch for everyone. Let them bring food from home. Don’t let the voice of others drown your best in you. When everyone feels good what you’re doing….keep doing it….keep the negativity out of reach and sight…😎🦸👊👊

Symptoms of ill-maturity:

1.Extreme level of self obsession.

2.”I’m always right” is your best quote.

3. You never listen to others because you don’t know how to use your ears but knows how to use mouth bluntly.🤣

4. You have no relation to knowledge and learning. But still, you are the best in your mind.

Did you also meet these kinds of ill-matured people in your life?  If yes! Stay out of these people. Stay safe because they know everything😂😂. Don’t entertain them at all.

More clumsy less gutsy Part-2

To be continued..

I had no idea what’s going in her mind but it was very confounding for me.

Me- I’m ready to come with you but it doesn’t mean that I’m afraid of you.

She(ridiculing me)- I know you are bravest of all. Oh my knight in shining armour thank you for rescuing my life.

Me(with frustrated stare)- No need to do that..Ok.

She- So wrap up all what you need during hiking.

I grab whatever I can or seems necessary at that time. We were all set to start our adventure.

She- I’m going to jump first.

Me- I have no issue.

She jumped like a cat… without any noise and she landed very smoothly. Now I have to muster all the courage within myself and without breaking a single bone I have to land. Obviously you want to look like a pro while doing all these things in front of a girl. It’s all about prestige. I’m not brawny to do these acts in my regular life.

I took a deep breathe suddenly she said “Think what worse can happen..and jump. You’ll be fine.”

Me- No.. I’m not afraid. I’m just looking for right place to jump.

I gave a second thought about what she said that was not at all a bad idea. But I pictured myself sitting on a bench and 2-3 front tooth broken and giving a smile like Paul Walker gave in Fast and Furious- Tokyo Drift at hospital to that girl.https://youtu.be/amhk5fZUV6g

So I recalled all my saints and good deeds and took a leap of faith. And I have no clue but I landed safely on my feet.

She- Not bad. Keep practicing you will be a pro like me one day.

Me- Woah! Woah! I don’t break into someone’s house like you through window..no need… I’m good. Let’s go now.

Hopefully she had a motorbike so we reached to our destination to start hiking.

She- So let’s start marching now.

Me- Wait! Where are your friends?

She- They reached early so they are kind ahead of us. We have to pace up to catch’em all.

Me- Are they all Pokemon?

She- Seriously you need to work hard on that.

We walked for almost an hour. We were reach to middle of our journey. So I was very eager to know where the hell her friends are? So I asked her ” Where they all? Or you must be lying to me the whole time. I’m not getting good vibes.”

She- Wait!…I know you trust your gut feelings but this time you’re wrong.

Me- No. You’re hiding something.

She- No.

Me- Yes.

This yes and no goes for 8-10 more times and finally she said” Okay! You forced me to open up about it. Though I’m not a true-blue kind of saint but I hope you’ll understand. Promise me you are not going to panic at all until I finish the whole story.

Me- Now you’re scaring me. But yeah I promise I will not.

She- There is none waiting for us ahead. There are no friends of mine in this hiking.

Me- Go on.

She- Will you shut up…So we are all alone here… There’s so much happened this past month which I didn’t share with anyone yet. Not even my parents. At beginning of this month I went for my regular health check-up…And I was diagnosed with asthma…Don’t make that face(I was shocked)…But it’s a very early stage…

Doctor said I still can get rid of it but I had to stop boxing🥊 and have to move to another city. So this past month I have so many things going in my mind..about my boxing future or college and all…but I’m not able to figure it out…Now tell me what to do.

Me- Look you are very much alive and healthy right now…but now I’m very concerned about you…I don’t know what to say…I know how much you love boxing…I know that you are this close to become the first women’s champion of our college…and of this city too…but right now too many “What if?” are concerning me.

She- Now tell me what should I do?

Me- Now you’re reminding of our good old days of friendship.

At school time once she got ill. Doctor strictly said she need a complete bed rest for 2-3 weeks.Final exams were just after 2 months. So right after school I used to went to her and explain and teach her all the important assignment and topics. She had score very good marks.

We’re so close friends that where I used she was always with me. She can’t hear or see anyone criticizing me or mockery of mine and same here.

Once we went to our friend’s Halloween party. She dressed as a Harley Quinn and I dressed as Joker. We all were enjoying and having fun. But as we all know whenever you think that this could be the best day of your life somebody from somewhere to mess it up.

Someone at that party trying to humiliate her as she is not rich and classy like others but I never judge her just because of her wealth or never look at her with sympathy. So I took the bowl of lemonade and threw at their face. Right after that I hold her hands with that joker laugh we left the party and hopped in the car to leave that shallow place.

She- I still owe you for that. When nobody’s were there you were still there to help me out unconditionally.

Me- Yeah! There is no fun if have no competitor in life. Basically I did to prove that I have sportsman spirit.

She- Oooohhhhh!!! hmmm…bravo…you can name it whatever…but I’m privilege to have a friend like you by my side. Why we can’t be friends like we used to?

The moment she said that she fell on my on me. She was fainted and we’re in the middle of the jungle now. I don’t know what to do. What you think what happened next?..What would you do? To know that wait for the 3rd and final part.

Thank for your time and patience. Thank you for stopping by.